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2015年2月28日星期六

20140329_《觸不到的她》

藝術的存在,是因為對現狀的不滿。
愛電影,在虛幻故事流自己的淚,
是回應世界的一種殊異方法,是一種流浪欲。
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繼Walter Mitty 後,又一大作。
好多反思。好。沉。重。
唯一喜悅的是,
主角代寫情書的工作太迷人了。
男人的感性比女人的感性要感性上千萬倍。
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與其說是觸不到的她,
不如說是觸不到的愛。
人人都渴望愛而不可得。

說穿了,當代愛情的面相是,
害怕孤獨,欠缺真正溝通,逃避深層交流,
更多的是因為完成某個人生進程、
人生規劃,又或滿足社會期盼。

當代人以為愛情可以填補空虛,
其實不。
真相是,只有投進愛情,
才可體會圓滿的孤獨,
因為無時無刻都有了兩個人的想望。
別為害怕孤獨而投進愛情。

至於科技?
我們以為是輔助生活,
繼而是填滿生活,
最後卻是搾取生活,
反成了被控制的,
連面對真實感情的勇氣都溶掉。

在令人迷茫的生活中,
在令人混亂的思緒中,
要找回撿拾收集起散落的自己,
好不容易。
需要高度醒覺,與誘惑保持距離,
對自己極度坦白。

或者,在一個兵荒馬亂的時代,
能遇上一個可以令你打開心扉的人,
經已好不容易。
你仍希望放下過去,毫無保留。
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要不是給掛上一個傷感結局,
愛上電腦程式,絕非不可能罷。
還蠻欣賞這種柏拉圖式的神交戀愛。
一種最純粹的愛,走進彼此的思海,
不為條件,不為外貌,
不為虛榮,不為現實,
似捉不住的無形,
卻是最深度最實在的交流。
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電影喚醒了我,我失落,
因為,我清楚知道,
那種對愛情本質的探求只能發生在我的想像中。
現實裡頭,愛情本質的探求是大冒險,
大部分人都不會問,
因愈問愈傷心,因知得愈少愈好。
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寞名失落來襲,如洪水,
但我憶起電影裡頭最甜的一席話,

“I love the way you look at the world.”

20140329_Her

Such a heavy movie after which
I can’t resist from self-reflection.
I mean. Non-stop.
Together with the heavy sky of Sunday.
With fog everywhere, especially in my mind.

The reflection of love.
The reflection of who we are.
The reflection of how to make a good relationship.
The reflection of the modern society.
The reflection of technology.
The reflection of the meaning of life.
The reflection of …

The music, the background music,
Just drive one into the vortex of deep thought.

We’re all crazy in love.
I can see the pain that he feels,
The struggle to get rid of the past,
The courage to embrace new start,
The joy to fall in love,
The kind of disappointment once encountered.

Sweet for the first half and sad for the remaining half.

The protagonist is so lovely and sensitive.
Like I'm obsessed with little things in this world.
Man that cries is sweet.

“I love the way you look at the world.”
To love without body touch,
solely soul and spirit.
I wonder. If it’s possible?
That’s the deepest way of love, I suppose.

“What’s marriage?”
“It’s difficult but… feel so good to share your life with somebody”
That’s the warmest way of love, I suppose.
…
At last, it is technology that controls us.
We can’t escape from real emotions that only human can give,
Either good one or bad one.
And this is only the real emotion that
makes us precious than any others in the world.

It reminds me of the movie years before
“Never Let Me Go” -
I don't let the fantasy go beyond that. I can't let it. I remind myself I was lucky to have had any time with him at all. What I'm not sure about is if our lives have been so different from the lives of the people we save. We all complete. Maybe none of us really understand what we've lived through, or feel we've had enough time.